Start where you
actually are.
There's no right way to begin, only what meets you where you are. Four ways in, and each one gets there differently.
The arrangement
What working with me is
- Direct. I'll tell you what I actually see, including the part you were hoping I wouldn't mention.
- Out loud, not on paper. The patterns surface while you're talking, not in homework you send me afterward.
- Useful. Insight matters, but what you do with it matters more.
- Yours. We find what's actually true for you, then you get bold enough to follow through.
Just as important
What it is not
- Not therapy. This work can go deep, but it is not counselling or clinical care.
- Not me handing you the answer. My job is to help you see clearly enough to hear your own.
- Not another version of you to perform. The whole point is figuring out what was yours underneath all of that.
Start where you are
Where you go from here
Find the line that is true for you right now and start there.
if you need one honest question to start
The Narrative Loom · $12
44 cards and companion guide
It hands you one honest question, then gets out of the way while you answer it. Five minutes and a bit of willingness.
See the deck →
if you know something's off and you can't name it
You Left Yourself Out · $27
The 43 page workbook
Seven areas of your actual life, scanned one at a time, until you're holding a one page map of what's yours and what you absorbed. This is where you find out where the gap is showing up.
See the workbook →
if you want words for what you've felt your whole life
The Soul Map · $65
The depths of you
Roughly 30 pages, built for you, read and shaped by me before it reaches you. Until you're holding your own map, you're working from a version of you that other people wrote.
See the Soul Map →
if you want me looking at it with you
Pre-Work Intensive · $222
90 minutes, one to one
You bring the thing you can't see around, we find the pattern underneath it, and you leave with one move that's sized for the life you actually have.
Book a session →
Answers
Questions
Do I have to run a business to work with you?
No. Business ownership is completely irrelevant here. Some of the women I work with build things and some do not. The transformation is the work. Business is just one of the places it shows up.
I am not 40. Can I still work with you?
Everything is built for women 40 and up in the messy middle. If you are 36 and every word on this site describes your life, you will get a lot out of it. I am telling you who I built it for, not checking ID.
Are you a therapist or a licensed counsellor?
No. I am a woman who has lived through transformations and learned to recognize patterns, and I am clear about this everywhere on this site. None of this is therapy, medical advice or psychological treatment. If you are in crisis, please talk to a professional.
Will this make me money?
I do not make income claims. Not one, at any price. I got burned chasing that game myself and I will not sell it to you. What I sell is the pre-work I have actually lived.
Do I have to believe in astrology?
No. Astrology and Human Design are background tools I use to interpret, never the product itself, and I am not certified in either. Plenty of skeptics have gotten a lot out of the Soul Map, because recognition does not require belief.
Which one do I start with?
The Soul Map, almost always. It is the mirror. Everything else makes more sense once you have looked in it.