Free · Two minutes
Are you adjusting, or are you in a transition?
These feel identical from the inside. They are not the same thing, and they need completely different things from you.
Eight questions. Nothing about your childhood, nothing about your goals. I’m only trying to work out one thing, and then I’ll tell you what it means.
Knowing which one you’re in is the relief.
Before you begin, think of one situation or change that is happening in your life right now, something relevant, unresolved, or bothering you. Keep that situation in mind as you answer the eight questions. You don’t need to explain it or apply the questions to your entire life, simply answer based on how this particular situation is affecting you.
Question 1 of 8
Thinking about this situation, when you picture a year from now, can you describe what you want it to look like?
Question 2 of 8
If someone asked you to describe yourself in three words right now, how would that go?
Question 3 of 8
When people give you advice about this situation:
Question 4 of 8
Thinking about this situation, the thing that changed:
Not every change in your life, just the change connected to the situation you’re thinking about.
Question 5 of 8
Can you tell what matters most to you right now?
Question 6 of 8
Small decisions, what to eat, what to watch, whether to go out. How are they right now?
Question 7 of 8
How long has this been going on?
Question 8 of 8
Is there a version of “sorted out” you’re aiming at with this situation?
Last step
Where should I send it?
Your full answer, what it means, and what to do with it. I’ll send it now.